"Anxiety is the handmaiden of contemporary ambition" (Alain de Botton)
There is so much turbulence everywhere….and Afghanistan seems to be only the tip of the flaming iceberg….with China, Iran, and Pakistan all crawling to accept and potentially do business with the new Taliban government in Kabul
California is on fire….the prairies are so dry that farmers
have lost somewhere near 75% of their expected crop….young children are dying
from COVID-19 Delta Variant…booster shots are now on the horizon….Gov. Abbott
of Texas, double vaccinated plus booster has contracted COVID-19….desperate people
in Kabul have been running underneath and climbing onto monster military jets just
to get out of their own native country…reminiscent of the people jumping to their
deaths on 9/11 in New York….school mandates for masks, vaccinations, social distancing
are literally all of the proverbial ‘map’ with political leaders way out of
their depth on public health leadership….
Viktor Oban in Hungary hosts Tucker Carlson’s Fox TV
show, in a defiant, thumb-his-nose at the United States, and an unsubtle and
scary ‘endorsement of both carlson and his cult leader trump…
CDC guidelines, like the weather forecasts we used to be
able to depend upon attempt valiantly to keep pace with the galloping new “science”
of the pandemic….while only 16% of the world’s population has been vaccinated….if
that is not a piece of information that sparks shivers down the spines of
everyone reading it, I do not know what would!
The Biden administration has so miscalculated the
speed at which the Taliban could and would come to control the capital of
Afghanistan including the airport(s), that they have had to rush some 7000
troops back into the country, while working feverishly to wipe the “egg” off
the face of the new U.S. government…Perhaps withdrawal from the twenty-year
war, another American foreign policy debacle, makes eminent sense, nevertheless
the execution of the extrication of American personnel and the 300,000 Afghanis
who have supported the American adventure over the last two decades is proving
to be lethal to some, and potentially to many…depending on both the outcomes and
the availability of accurate reporting as these days and weeks and months pass.
Interest rates are starting to rise, real estate
prices are starting to fall…food prices are projected to rise considerably, and
public institutions are metaphorically, and thereby effectively
eroding/atrophying right before our eyes.
Messages via whatever platform have so mushroomed that
mail boxes are overflowing, notes are being passed over, connections that
previously came with group projects are dissipating if not disappearing and
being replaced (ineffectually) by technology …..employers are witnessing a
tidal wave of resignations from long-established employees, many of them highly
professional and highly educated, leaving both a vacuum in those workplaces,
and a seismic shift in managerial job descriptions and strategies of leadership.
Conversations that previously relied on the two verbs,
“ask” and “tell” are being coached into transforming in the direction of “shared
learning” in the hope that relationship building can and will pick itself up
off the floor of the basal transactional….(we are, after all, much more
complicated and interesting that mere function, especially as the agents of
another’s end results).
“Getting to know” one’s workers, volunteers, business
and club associates, colleagues, has become another cliché in a long line of
managerial cliches that have been trotted out by managerial guru’s in their
vain attempt to shape the culture of the capitalist system.
Unfortunately, however, given that “cash is king” and
that “cash talks” (in the words of a U.S. Congresswoman) the American culture’s reliance
on symbols of hard power, (the military, and the market, including the buying
of political support) has hopefully passed its expiry date.
Exporting democracy, at the end of a bayonet, and at
the end of a surveillance drone, while believing that such power symbols
warranted geo-political respect, admiration, and even sycophancy, is a national
strategy that one can only hope has finally reached its inevitable and
justifiable death. The relationships between how a nation conducts its business
and how it conducts its foreign policy are really not that far apart. Power,
domination, testosterone, even mediated by the occasional “sensitivity and empathy”
for example, for the threated women and children in Afghanistan, continues to
plague the strategies and the tactics of too much of the developed world,
traditionally ‘led’ or perhaps even cowered by the United States.
Business models that consider workers, at all levels,
but especially at the bottom end of the “food chain” to be both expendable as
if they were just another “resource” in the manufacturing process, or “revenue-generators”
as opposed to “cost-generators” in the sales, distribution process that extend
the product generation business, and political “business models” that rank cash
as the criterion by which to judge the success of a political machine, and its “face,”
have simply lost their way.
The moral way was lost decades ago; now we are proving
that the efficacy of those models has also been found desperately and despicably
wanting. We have become familiar with the words “safety” and “efficacy” in
reference to the newly approved, (however temporarily) vaccines for COVID.
Those words have an equal, if not even more relevance to the policies, practices
and the culture in which we are currently expected to operate.
PAUSE to breathe:
Dalai Lama: There is a saying in Tebetan, 'Tragedy should be itilized as a source of strength.' Nomatter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that's oru real disaster.
Just a narrative example, from personal experience.
Working with a practicing psychologist, an organizational consultant, and a practitioner
in board strategies and organizational models, together we submitted a proposal
to a struggling board of education for diagnosis, consulting, coaching and long-term
support, in order to transform what was ailing the system into an effective and
self-sustaining model. Our projected fee was $10K. The board chair, who
actually go back to us, had a one-line reason/excuse for not engaging us. “You
were far too expensive!”
We were not asked to explain, or to justify, or to
demonstrate how we would engage with the board officials. We were dismissed
exclusively on our “bottom line cost”.
And that kind of superficiality, based on dollars, is
a demonic and pervasive form of sabotage of far too many ideas, projects, and
even potential transformations that are demonstrably needed on both sides of
the border.
Base pay, for those considered “essential” to the
health needs of seniors, for example, has demonstrated how frugality, and
profit-seeking greed, has lined the coffers of the privately operated long-term
care facilities, while exposing both staff and residents to inordinate levels
of the pandemic. Similarly, minimum-wage policies and practices in the service
sector, have been exposed for what they are and have been, with re-opening
restaurants and bars desperately searching for new hires, after the willing
departure of thousands of previous workers who will no longer ‘slave’ for ‘slave’
wages.
The gas has been leaking from the shock-absorbers in our
culture for a very long time, while corporate magnates turned a blind eye and a
deaf ear to the plea’s and the cries for modest respect, and moderate “value”
that have been coming from the non-unionized workers who, quite literally, have
no voice in the marketplace. Similarly, there is no gas left in the
shock-absorbers once considered minimal social graces like manners, respect for
others, decency in debate, serious consideration of the views of another, even
over a beer in a bar, without resorting to that familiar adage from Dubya on
the pile of destruction following 9/11, “You are either for us or against us!”
There was and continues to be “no subtlety” in that
epithet.
And Dubya himself said, “I do not do subtlety!”
Neither, it appears, does the rest of world any more,
if we use social media as our research source.
I met a young man this week, in his mid-forties, who
has generated a social media “community” of cheerleaders for his home town.
Elegant photos, supportive insights and information hare generated considerable
support. However, even he has found that there are too many who wish to “trash”
his work, his site, and his valiant efforts to bring a little peace and harmony
to the lives and the days of his small community. So virulent has been the “trash-talk”
that he expressed concern for his own mental wellness, after struggling in vain
to explain reasonable views in a reasonable manner.
Reason, respect, moderation and decency, as the gas in
the shock absorbers in a faraway time and place, have evaporated like so many
species of animals and plants. There is no ‘scientific’ linkage between climate
and global warning to the death of those ‘species’ because, for one thing, they
are not creatures on a zoologists or a botonists’s lab table, being anatomized,
parsed and dissected for their terminal disease. Reason, respect, moderation,
decency and mutual tolerance are creatures of a culture in which some of us
were raised. Of course, they are not anatomical, or biological, nor are they
able to be assigned empirical data points, like a rate of heart-beat, a rate of
oxygen absorption into the blood stream, a lung capacity, nor an acid-test in
the urine.
However, they are nevertheless, essential ingredients
of a healthy family, a healthy community organization, a healthy town or
village, an effectively functioning and visionary town council. And to be
unable to use a microscope or an MRI, or a CAT-SCAN to determine how “healthy”
they are in a particular social organism, renders them no less important, and
no less in need of nutrition, sustenance, oxygen and vitamins in the form of
repetition, gratitude, replication, endorsement and emulation.
These essential ingredients of a healthy social system,
too, cannot be purchased, nor can they be manufactured in a factory. Schools
can and do try to foster their inculcation; however, in a sweltering and
pulsating ocean of counter-intuitive winds, hurricanes, tornadoes, fire-storms,
all of them fueled by lies, hatred, bitterness, profound neuroses and even
psychoses, the normally useful and necessary “tacking” is no longer enough.
Mounting a counter-storm, or even a counter-story, to
the onslaught of mean-spirited and narcissistic fear, is, and will continue to
be a quixotic and frustrating endeavour.
Just as shaming those refusing to get vaccinated is
totally ineffective, so too is shaming and blaming and shouting and screaming
against those who refuse to demonstrate something close to reasonableness. As
one highly engaged and even more highly intelligent woman put it to me when I
was expressing angst at the culmination of so much negativity, “At this time, I
believer we have to be even more courageous; we have to be determined not to
permit our own drowning in these toxic waters of social media, fed by toxic
public figures.”
Never have those words been more needed, regardless of
the specific conditions one faces, nor in what country we face them. Whether we
are trying to feed a family in a refugee camp in Jordan, or educated a young
girl in Afghanistan, or evacuate thousands from the danger of the Taliban, or
get vaccinations to the other 84% of the world’s population who have yet to be
vaccinated, or whether we are engaged in the UN World’s Food Program, or
whether we are engaged in a philanthropic in our own or a foreign land….we need
people to commit, to engage, to risk and to take up the single most relevant
and compelling issue we each see right before our eyes.
Half-hearted, dilettantish, semi-serious engagement is,
both by definition and by operation, a failure to engage. We need to be more
conscious and assertive about what we want to do, and those with whom we wish
to share our commitment and we need to find those who can and will listen to
our desire to serve. And those who are responsible for recruitment and engagement
of volunteers need to be very specific in both the terms of the tasks needing
to the carried out and the value placed on those who complete them.
There is neither time nor space for the “usual” or the
“normal” detachments, the normal politenesses, or the politically correct upper-class
reserve, once considered demure and sophisticated. We are, that is every single
human being on the planet, is facing too many unresolved, complicated and
complicating, and obviously inter-connected sizeable issues or files. We cannot
depend on the political class for answers. We also cannot rely on the big money
philanthropists to remediate our own angst.
We must face our angst in
a way that is not hand-wringing, but rather cudgel-raising. The world needs everyone
of us, and it needs us now.
Our individual, family,
town, community wellbeing and even our shared survival are hanging in the
balance.